Saturday, March 31, 2007
Way to remember an order of sequence
The order is like that:
(TF)D-A-B-F-(RNAP)-E-H
I tried my best to think of a way to link all words beginning with the alphabets in that order in a sentence.
First, i noticed B and F are together, almost automatically i filled in 'Boy Friend'. Then, i know i gotta add two adjectives in front. First, i put 'Dedicated' echoes to the characteristic of BF (hehe). Next, another adjective... hhmm... at first i can't think of many choices...then i went 'google' it. Almost instantly i got my result, with a page of adjectives all starting with 'A' ... wow... 'Amazing' is the first word i think is very nice. A lot of choices but I picked 'Awesome' :P
Next thing, after RNAP (RNA polymerase), should be a verb starts with a 'E' and i want the word of the following 'H' to be 'Her'...
So, again, i was puzzled. I can't think of many words, except 'eat' :P (well... a dedicated awesome bf can't 'eat' her/his gf). Then something funny came to my mind...'educate', 'eliminate', 'embarass'... all are not suitable, then i googled it again but without any immediate result. I sorted to find it in dictionary to see which is my best and favourite word. In the end, you know what? i found 'embrace' ^^
(a)' Dedicated Awesome Boy Friend (RNAP) Embraces Her '
Wonderful, isn't it? ; )
Tuesday, March 27, 2007
Das Beste
es tut so gut wie du mich liebst
Vergess den Rest der Welt,
wenn du bei mir bist ~
* Dieses Lied wird nur für meinen Liebling gewidmet. : )
Song can be downloaded follows the link below:
Silbermond - Das Beste
Monday, March 19, 2007
给我的一位好朋友
肥胖的问题哪有男女之分? 还有,不是每个人都喜欢瘦巴巴的身材,也不是每个人都特别注重身材的.再况且也没有人对标准的身材有一定相同的看法. 我本身不认为有那种必要去认同某些人的定义或看法—审美本来就是多元化的。
或许有时过于在意外在的分别(轻重一两公斤),会忽略了本身(内在)的特色。
依我看,如今你看起来还好好的,外在内在都很正面啊!继续保持健康吧!不必怀疑自己,更不必讨厌自己的性别。从我认识你至今,你给我的印象都蛮好的,当然也有一定的异性吸引力啦(不然你也不会有你现任的男朋友追求,是吧?)!
当你要顾及每个人对你(可能)的看法和感受,你就应不暇接了,笼罩在恐惧和担心的负面情绪。那些都是无谓的。你应该把你对自己的满意度置于别人的看法之上,而不是相反。别人的看法可能可以塑造或影响你的满意度,但自己还是要有独立的思考和自己的价值观。
对于肥胖的科学与心理研究,我其实略有读过也有些心得,改次等我考完试后再拿出来与你分享!期盼看到你早日摆脱受罪和混淆的情绪和感受。
Monday, March 12, 2007
Update about my life
Here's my little schedule for the upcoming events in the next few months to go (to finish off my undergraduate degree):
March:
16/17th- Presentation of a research paper (not mine)
20th- an Interview for my Master degree in Imperial
21st- German level 2 oral exam
22nd- German level 2 written exam
26th- Deadline for computer lab project
April:
23rd-27th: Final exam for all 4 subjects for this academic year (45% of my whole degree)
30th - June 14th: 6 weeks Final year project (15%)
June:
15-19th: Viva (oral exam) bout my project
20th- 30th: holidaying + packing to go home! :) --> so looking forward to this!
I'm expected to be back in M'sia in early July.
For all these reasons, in this meantime, i gotta be serious. Honestly, i'm still lagging behind in studies while the final exam is only 6 weeks left. Although this is the last week of my last subject,and i will have a long holiday but i don't feel anything. Just a bit of anxiety and worries whether 4 weeks of intensive revision is sufficient to get the result i want? i don't know but hopefully the answer is 'yes'.
That's why i resist a lot of temptations asking me to go for holiday break (andy: Milan, Italy ; Lip Shien: Scotland). No way, study is more important :P will enjoy life to the fullest after my degree (in that 3 months summer holiday before the hell routine of my master starts kicking in).
I can't say i won't post anything during the meantime, but who knows? i always have things to say/write in my mind to share with all of you. Sometimes it just needs some motivations for me to take the initiative to do it!
It's actually quite spectacular that i almost completely disappear from many club and society activies this term. It's especially my favourite Dance!!! It ain't no fun when dancing becomes another source of burden or stress (as i proceed further to advance level). I also hate myself for not completing Latin dance as what i wished earlier on. I always 半途而废 (10 mins passion), *sigh*
I also need more and more motivation to push me harder for studies too. The current status is still not looking good. : (
Saturday, February 17, 2007
Personality tests
My Personal Dna Report
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Test 2:
Your Dominant Thinking Style: Modifying |
Super logical and rational, you consider every fact available to you. You don't make rash decisions and are rarely moved by emotion. You prefer what's known and proven - to the new and untested. You tend to ground those around you and add stability. |
Thursday, February 15, 2007
22年来的第一个情人节
今天的我很开心,因为她也很开心。这是我与她庆祝的第一个情人节。那也是个隔着7000里距离和8小时时差的情人节。这两个因素加起来,就是我与她度过的情人节的特别之处。特别在于其中包涵的意义--这是我22年以来第一次拥有情人,真正体会到与情人共度这节日的意义。其中掺杂了不少徘徊在心头上的情感和思念的味道。
真的很想留在她身边与她一起度过昨天的每一刻。虽然无法见面,但是我通过电话陪伴她一直到她昨天节日的最后一刻。听到她说打开我送给她的礼物满心欢喜的那一刻,我很欣慰,顿时紧张焦虑她不喜欢我送的礼物的心情也云消雾散。她甚至要我回来时为她亲手戴上去(那对耳环)。^ ^ 我相信她明白我非常重视这日子,和体会到我为她用心构思的每一个点子和努力,包括情人节倒数至前夕的创意‘活动’。
说真的,昨天我看到校园内和到处都有人(包括朋友们)都成双入对的,我心里蛮羡慕的。前晚更听我的屋友qi zhen说要给他的女友一个surprise trip到巴黎去度过情人节,我都快要眼红了… 。其实,也许是因为有了分离才体现出相思的价值,更懂得珍惜在一起的日子,学着怎样体谅和迁就互相配合对方。或许就是在这种情况下,心灵上更为接近对方,更能肯定对方在自己心目中的地位。
在我与她还未开始这段恋情时,我们已清楚即将面对的严峻的挑战。在鼓励我,祝福我的当儿,身边的朋友和家人都好像在好心劝我别太认真和投入。我的屋友甚至举例很多他认识的朋友的案例都几乎全以失败告终来说明长距离恋爱的存活率近乎零的残酷现实。我不愿去相信,因为那些个案都是人家的,我与他们未必相同。再况且命运是掌握在自己的手中的,如何经营,发展和造化一段感情的方式和观念因人而异。距离和时差是两个具体现实的限制而已(physical limitation),不是决定一段感情持久与否的必然条件。君不见即使居住在一起的情侣也可能不合而分手,为什么感情出现问题就要怪距离和时差呢?我已算是幸运了,虽然聚少离多但是还可以至少每年回国见面几个月。我相信那是上天给我们的感情的一个考验。真金不怕火炼,经得起考验的感情更显得珍贵和璀璨!
有时在谈及我的感情展望的言语中,朋友都批评我过于理想化和乐观。我知道,而她也知道,要破除因距离时差而产生的恐惧和不安定感,需要保持一些正面的因素(feel good factors)和对这段恋情的期望-- 这些在日久以后可以让感情有个方向和目标。与此同时,我们对感情的信念和坚持在有了目标和方向后,会显得更具体和有意义。理想化和乐观,并不代表不考虑现实层面,也是要常提醒自己要有上进和进取心,努力不懈地朝向理想走去。这样才有真正实现的一天。若两人都有同样的信念,就信任对方吧!
这些想法都是在我这段感情发展时累积下来的。我也曾与她真正讨论和交流过我们彼此的想法。我认为,能够在恋爱时保持一定的理智是很重要的。
无论如何,我真的希望能与她继续走下去直到最后。: )
对于尚未有情人的朋友们,我也祝福你们 yo!!! ; ) 大家加油吧!
p/s: 上个星期日是我的一个小学朋友的婚礼,看到我的朋友们一班人去捧场祝福,感觉很温馨!虽然知道那新娘子朋友应该不会阅读我的部落格,我实在替她感到高兴!=D
Friday, February 09, 2007
大学生真的不会闹事?
US people are stupid?
My friend featured and linked this video from youTube to his Facebook page.
I think this street interview video is bias… First, it’s not appropriate to say that American people are stupid because they do not know some general knowledge or current affairs (although I must admit that some of the questions are really basic). They are just ignorant, living in the world of their own. Second, most of the interview took place in the
call him Snowboy... coz he's small !
Let my little snowman aka snowboy to say 'Hello' to all of you! With his arms wide open, he's welcoming you to witness the heaviest snowfall in London since i came to London!!!
His eyes are made of two 5 pence coins, and his nose is actually Queen's face 1 pound coin!!! This is just a 5 minutes effort though, 'coz i was then rushing to attend my lecture. :P
Below is one of my Hyde park winter shots, just to contrast with the same picture (in my best 50 album) i took in Spring last year!
Thursday, February 08, 2007
For good laughs... haha
It was since my birthday i didn't update my blog. But today i really cannot tahan when i see this picture i obtained from some random website. I laughed until my stomach makes hole...Title: how to hit aeroplane
ermm.... should be interesting, 'cause it's a Military book, published more than 40 years ago. :P
what do you think? guys out there, would you buy if you found one? *wink*
Waooo...what a nice car number plate!!! Lucky Penang lang!!!